What is a Pleasure Passport?

A Pleasure Passport is a shared list of sensual experiences, fantasies, rituals, and micro-adventures you want to try together. It can be a simple notebook, a digital doc, or a handcrafted booklet you both sign. The point isn’t perfection — it’s permission to explore.

How to Create Yours (10-Minute Kickoff)

1. Grab a notebook or open a new doc. Title it Pleasure Passport and put today’s date on the cover.

2. Set a no-judgment rule. Agree that all ideas are welcome. No shame, no critiques.

3. Brainstorm separately for 5 minutes. Each partner writes every idea that comes to mind.

4. Share and combine. Read out loud, circle the mutual yeses, star the wildcards.

5. Pick one “Initiation” project. Choose one small, low-effort idea to try this week.

30 Pleasure Prompts to Get You Started

• Kiss at sunrise in a new city

• Try a new toy together in the hotel room

• Give each other a 15‑minute blindfolded massage

• Dance slowly with no music for five minutes

• Leave a sensual note on the pillow for later

• Try an edible massage oil (and taste-test!)

• Swap playlists and have a touch-only hour

• Use a toy with an app while one partner is out for a coffee (consent first!)

• Create a 10‑minute morning ritual of gratitude + touch

(Keep the list handy — add new prompts after every success.)

The 3‑Month Pleasure Passport Plan

Month 1 — Foundations

• Week 1: Create Passport + pick the Initiation project.

• Week 2: Try it. Debrief (what worked, what didn’t).

• Week 3: Add 5 new prompts.

• Week 4: Pick one small toy or accessory to enhance play.

Month 2 — Expand

• Schedule one date night that’s exclusively about one Passport item.

• Try a new location for intimacy (the balcony, the bathtub, the car after sunset — safe, consensual options).

• Introduce a new toy from our Couples Collection.

Month 3 — Level Up

• Plan a weekend mini-retreat dedicated to completing two Passport items.

• Journal together about the experience and mark off completed items.

Tips for Making It Stick

• Put a recurring “Pleasure Check-In” on your calendar once every two weeks.

• Use micro-commitments: small steps build bigger habits.

• Celebrate with a small reward — a favorite dessert, a massage, or a new bath bomb.

Packing & Essentials

• One travel-friendly toy (see Travel Collection)

• Toy cleaner, small bottle of lube, discrete storage pouch

• A mini notebook or your phone notes for on-the-go ideas

Ready to start your Pleasure Passport? Browse our Couples Exploration Kits for curated tools that make trying new things easy and fun.